Unfriendly reminder: a few years ago - well beyond the point Marvel lost the plot and basically stopped producing a good Iron Man title - blind squirrel Brian Michael Bendis (who otherwise couldn't write Tony to save his life) found a nut. More specifically, he suddenly remembered Tony's generosity of spirit:

From Invincible Iron Man #11 (2017)

So: Tony funds orphanages and rehabilitation programs -- but according to 2020 Marvel, he's a guy who's never "looked past his privilege."

2020 Marvel is terminally stupid.

(Yes, I'm still on about that. I will die on this hill, damn it.)